Self

CHOOSE YOURSELF FIRST ALWAYS

So if you’re there right now, let this be your reminder: you don’t have to wait to be chosen.

There are times when you find yourself sitting with the emotional residue of heartbreak—feeling like you weren’t fully chosen or seen in the way you hoped to be. Outwardly, you might be showing up strong, creative, even glowing… but beneath the surface, there’s a story of silent suffering. A quiet ache. A yearning to be claimed. And if you’re honest, maybe a few moments where you gave too much of yourself just to feel wanted in return.

I’ve felt that energy before. That place where your sense of worth starts to lean too heavily on someone else’s affection. Where you keep waiting—hoping—for them to finally see your value, only to feel like you’re disappearing a little more each time. It’s something so many of us do without realizing it… until it hurts too much to ignore.

So if you’re there right now, let this be your reminder: you don’t have to wait to be chosen. You don’t have to sacrifice your needs or quiet your voice just to be loved. You get to reclaim yourself. You get to pour that energy back into you. The love you’re craving? It starts inside. And the moment you choose you, everything else begins to shift.

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