Random hookups, one night stands, and casual sex, it’s all fun and games until you’re sitting in a clinic being told your lab results came back positive for something incurable. It’s all fun and games until the woman you only intended to spend one night with is now draining your finances for a child you never planned for.
I’m in my mid 40s now. I used to be a party girl, always out, drinking, clubbing, living for the weekend. But after experiencing a deep spiritual awakening, I hung up my party hat and dancing shoes, picked up my Bible, and started building a real relationship with God.
I don’t judge anyone for partying or getting drunk every weekend. I know how fun it can be. I understand how stress makes you crave release, how being around friends and dancing your problems away can feel like therapy. I’m not one of those people who finds God and suddenly looks down on those who haven’t changed. I get it.
Toxic lifestyles are fun until they are not. Chasing thrills feels amazing until you are the one facing the long term consequences no one talks about. I’m blessed to have survived a toxic lifestyle fueled by alcohol, casual sex, and poor decisions. Now I speak not from judgment, but from experience. I’m here to educate, to offer perspective, and to warn from a place of love.
One of the scariest things about casual sex is when you are committed to someone who is sleeping around behind your back. It is not just the single life that carries risk, being married or in a serious relationship is dangerous too when people are not honest about their lifestyle outside your home.
Beyond unwanted pregnancies and STDs, there is a deeper spiritual consequence people rarely speak on, sexually transmitted spirits. When you lay with someone who is sleeping with multiple partners, you are not just exchanging physical fluids, you are opening portals. You can pick up spiritual parasites. I did, from someone I loved.
These sexually transmitted demons attach themselves to your energy. They drain your life force. They bring confusion, chaos, and destruction. Things start falling apart, your money, your peace, your mind. They can lead to compulsive behaviors, addiction, and moral compromise. They seduce you into things you never imagined you would be drawn to, even crossing sexual boundaries you once held firm. Over time, the hunger grows. The thrill seeking deepens. And it is no longer you in control.
I know how hard celibacy is, especially in a world where hookup culture is normalized through music, media, and society. But if you are not choosing celibacy, then please choose wisdom. Use protection. Choose your partners with care. Avoid sex when under the influence of alcohol or drugs. And never forget, if you cannot fully trust someone you were married to, what makes you think you can trust a stranger after a few drinks.
Getting tested after a long term marriage was a reality check I never expected. Sex was not the real danger, casual trust was. Thankfully, I received a clean bill of health, and I have made it a priority to protect my safety and well being by choosing celibacy until I meet someone I can fully trust. In the past I ignored my intuition and did not use proper discernment. That lesson was hard earned, and it is one I refuse to overlook again.
Please be safe out there. I pray for your protection:
Divine Creator, Source of Light and Wisdom,
I lift up those who are navigating the path of intimacy outside of committed bonds.
Surround them with your divine protection, body, mind, and spirit.
Shield them from harm, disease, energetic attachments, and spiritual entanglements not meant for their highest good.
Guide their hearts with discernment.
Let them not be deceived by false promises, hidden intentions, or soul draining connections.
Cover them with clarity, courage, and boundaries rooted in self love and divine worth.
Cleanse any lingering cords of energy that do not belong,
and restore their power, peace, and sacred essence.
Let every touch be protected, every space they enter be cleared, and every decision be aligned with their higher self.
May they find joy, safety, healing, and truth in every encounter,
and return to themselves whole, sovereign, and divinely guided.
Amen.
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