Originally posted to my Missmjxoxo Facebook Page on May 24, 2024
This message was originally meant to be about temptation and overcoming it, inspired by 1 Corinthians 10:13. I asked God to give me a word aligned with that scripture—and what came through was unexpected, but necessary: sex addiction and the inability to remain faithful.
This isn’t about judgment—it’s about awareness and healing. Someone needs to hear this.
You must protect your energy and your spirit. Not everyone you lay down with is clean in soul or intention. Some people carry dark, destructive energies. When you open yourself up physically, you also open spiritual doors. You may think it’s just sex, but spiritually, it’s so much more. You could be exchanging energy with someone who carries evil—and in doing so, dishonoring your own body and spirit.
If you’re someone who struggles with commitment, who keeps breaking promises in relationships—please hear me. If you’re not ready to be faithful, don’t enter a committed relationship. Don’t be selfish. Don’t bring someone else into your chaos just because you don’t want to be alone. Love, honesty, and respect are choices. If you’re not choosing them, let that person go.
Infidelity and sex addiction don’t just hurt your partner—they destroy families, erode trust, and pull you deeper into self-destruction. One selfish decision affects everyone around you—your partner, your children, your community. Sometimes the destruction begins long before the betrayal is even exposed.
We all fight demons—every single one of us. Some are addicted to substances, some to sex, some to validation or control. But what’s common is that we often seek fulfillment in the wrong people, places, and behaviors. Just because someone looks good doesn’t mean their spirit is clean. Even the devil can present himself as beautiful.
If this is your struggle—pray. Ask God to deliver you. It’s not too late. You don’t have to keep living in cycles of shame, secrecy, or destruction. Being faithful is possible. Healing is possible. Wholeness is possible.
Protect your body. Protect your soul. And stop laying down with trash—not because others say it’s wrong, but because you deserve more, and so does the person you’re hurting. If they’re being faithful to you, they don’t deserve to carry the pain of your betrayal. Imagine giving someone your loyalty, and they repay you with disease, dishonor, and emotional destruction.
To whoever needs this message: you are worth more than the habits that bind you. God has called you to more. Stop living like trash when you were created to walk in light.
I’m not judging—I’ve had my own battles. For me, it was alcohol. But I know what it means to seek escape and find yourself in destruction. I overcame it, and you can too.
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