Get the mood started by sipping a glass of wine and watching a sexy porno. Not only will you learn new techniques; you will become intensely aroused. Be sure to fight off the feeling to perform self-gratification. Hold yourself together! Relax, watch, and imagine you and your lover as the actors in the scene. This is the start of foreplay, which gets you in the mood for serious action. When your lover arrives, you’ll be ready to rip his clothes off and show him a few new tricks.