I saw this meme floating around the internet for months and it always made me question its accuracy. Can a person love you deeply with their feelings and still not know how to love you correctly with their actions? LOVE is more than a word, and it is deeper than a feeling. Love describes something amazing and it creates something powerful. Love dictates actions in such a way that you will never have to question if it’s real. When someone truly loves you deeply beyond just the words, the way their actions respond to their feelings will prove to you that they love you.
We often get things like comfort, compatibility, history, connection, and attraction confused with love or reasons to be in love with someone. Love is so powerful it stands alone. It doesn’t require a long list of reasons; we have a child together, she’s a great mother, he was there for me when I needed him, my family loves her, he made me laugh. You love because you love. You love because you wake up with a feeling that doesn’t require reasoning, but gives something meaning “…..because I love you.”
Life is painful, and that is what makes love hurt. Love is this euphoric feeling that allows you to live happily in peace. There is nothing toxic about love. It is love that keeps you attached to toxic people who do not love you deeply in return. When we speak about love, it should be spoken of with respect as it is the one thing that keeps us together in harmony. When you look at the flaws in the people you love, it is love that keeps you committed to loving them with all of their flaws. When we speak about love, it should be spoken of with an understanding that a person CANNOT love you deeply with their feelings and still not know how to love you with their actions. When someone loves you deeply with their feelings, they won’t need to know how to love you with their actions. Love is impactful. If someone’s actions don’t match their love then understand that they simply do not love you deeply enough.