Exploring intimacy, we come upon the idea of sharing a deep dark fantasy with your partner. When you learn that sex is greater than the act of intercourse, you can achieve deeper and more meaningful levels of satisfaction through mental, emotional and physical stimulation.
Sit in a quiet, dimly lit setting. Stare into the eyes of your partner with an abundance of passion. Be sure there are no distractions. Turn off cell phones, lower any music, turn off the television, etc.. This moment is reserved exclusively for you and your partner. Undivided attention is necessary. Close your eyes and think freely of a sexual fantasy you feel comfortable sharing with your partner. Mentally live out your fantasy, feeling every experience as though it is clearly happening in the present moment. In a soft, clear, sensual tone begin to share your fantasy with your partner. Touch your body as you share your story – feel every thought. Become vulnerable with your partner by allowing them to see the intensity of your experience through each of your gestures.
Remember this is all a part of foreplay. As excited as you may feel, refrain from actual intercourse. The idea is to let the desire mount. Build momentum slowly for a glorious experience later on in the night.